Now you might think that I'm totally crazy for even suggesting this, but, before you reject the advice you are getting, first read this article, and then decide whether it will work or not. You want to get your ex boyfriend back, and have tried everything else without luck, so giving this a try won't hurt at all, will it?
Reverse psychology works like this. Your ex boyfriend is used to you throwing tantrums, (and other things,) whenever you had an argument, right? Even during the argument that caused the break up, you were carrying on like a banshee, and throwing your toys out of the cot! According to him, this is your normal behaviour - he hasn't seen you react any differently.
This is the beauty of reverse psychology. You are actually going to play games with your ex boyfriend's mind! First of all, he is expecting you to call him and behave the way he is used to you behaving, so exercise some control and DON'T do it! Be strong, and don't let your emotions take over - you want to get your ex boyfriend back, so be determined!
Just don't contact him at all - pretend that you really have no problem with breaking up with him, and that you are quite happy to get on with your own life. Of course you might not really feel this way - everyone knows that you are depressed and hurting like crazy right now, even your ex, but just let your ex and all your friends believe that you feel this way.
To really convince your ex and your friends, make a point of looking absolutely stunning when you go out. If your friends ask you why you are dressed this way, then tell them that, since you are now single again, you want to be able to attract other guys, since your ex isn't interested in being with you anymore.
You do know of course, that you will no sooner have said this, than one of your friends at least, will have told your ex what you are doing, and what you have said.
This, together with the fact that you are behaving so nonchalantly about the break up, will encourage your ex to make contact with you to find out what the heck is going on. Play your cards right, and who knows, you could just get your ex boyfriend back again.
DO YOU WANT TO MAKE YOUR EX FALL FOR YOU ONCE AGAIN?
Yes, it's still possible. You can get your ex boyfriend back regardless of whether they already eloped with someone else or not. Of course, you have to know how to do it effectively.
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By Ilona Benes